Not being selfish, arrogant or boastful! Rather, it’s being mindful, responsible and self-appreciative.
You are one of a kind, uniquely created, endowed with special talents, abilities and an intelligent being. You must know that you are responsible for your attitude, your self-care, your development, success and advancement. While the help of others may be necessary, while co-operation with others is vital in completing certain tasks, while positive interaction with others has benefits, ultimately, you hold the reigns in determining your path. Further, you must know that your self-care is up to you. You have to do it for you! Ok? For You!Your joy Cannot, Must Not be placed in another’s hands. Need a bouquet? Calming music? A Special treat? Health & wellness? Do it for yourself! For you! Ok?
You may have lost job, a relationship, loved ones and need the support of others to function more fully. But, but, at the end of the day, when all’s said and done you must appreciate yourself. There is No reason why you should put yourself down. Sure you might have erred, fallen short, but you are Fearfully abd Wonderfully Made! You are a Gem! You Can Rise up and Conquer!
You Must be Mindful of yourself, Responsible for your decisions and Self-appreciative!
Do it for you! Ok!


