The State of that Womb!

A Warm accommodating Space? A Putrid Place/ A Mourning Entity? What???

When I found out that I was going to become a new Mommy for the first time thirty -two years ago, I made sure to find all the literature I could get to acquaint myself about that foetal development within the womb. Many times I poured over those Medical Encyclopaedias, watched the available Cable Channels at that time that showed and explained foetal development while in the womb, the care I needed to take as well as what could seriously hamper my child’s development and viability. Despite the emotional anxiety that had come with me becoming pregnant, from Family, Church, The Yoke-bearing Protocols that were in effect within the Education Department where I was employed and then my own relationship, I was bent on making the effort to ensure that my unborn child was in the best of health with me.

The state of my womb therefore was of crucial importance. All my checks proved that I was well physically and my child was developing as she ought to be. I read to her, sang to her, while her Four Year Old cousin spoke to her and rubbed my belly throughout the nine month period. My amniotic sac did not leak, she sure did kick around a lot and was in generally good health. Although she came out pretty early and was tiny, she was kicking and screaming at the top of her lungs. Her mouth looked like she would be one to be reckoned with as far as airing her views and stating her case. Sure, she has lived up to that thought too.

All’s well for my Baby and Me but I can’t help but turning my attention to that “Other” Womb. On September 11th 2020, I did a signatory post on the sister Facebook Page expounding on that Womb, the one that was Mourning because of all the weight she was still carrying long past the due date. Persons had not seen upward mobility because of a stifling in the environment while relationships hadn’t been able to thrive because things that should have been let go were still in that Womb. Micromanagement had created a shutting down of talents at places of employment, interactions were not openly objective because there were just too many unresolved matters.

Do you have a Mourning Womb? How are you handling dealing with it? Have you been able to shed the weight that should have long since been released? Are you tired because the stress and the strain is dragging you under? What is the state of That Womb. It is vital, now more than any other time, to be sure that your womb isn’t in mourning. Mental Wellness, Balance, Tranquillity and Calm, Hope and Faith are what everyone needs. And when at that moment you find yourself being dragged low, reach out for help. The external factors bearing down on you must not be allowed to do damage. If you aren’t getting relief, you must throw out serves you no purpose. It means therefore that there may need to do an audit of outside interference that does not make for internal health. Wombs are meant to be healthy spaces for progress, development and growth.

Alternately, one cannot afford to have a Womb that is a Putrid Place. It should never be that That Womb is the entity creating the rot, the stench the ill-feeling, the oozing sore. On August 22nd 2021, my post on our Sister Face-book Page expounded on the womb being in such a state, that itself was creating the inflictions. So it may have been a case where the communication was not forthcoming, a crowding was taking place such that expansion was not possible. Internal old mindsets lodged tightly in place were impeding ones progress. Non-communication, unclear communication or little communication were all making it rather difficult for a clear plan to be crafted. In essence, the problem was an internal one of self-sabotage.

How have your relationships, dreams, aspirations been thwarted seriously by your own doing? Have you remained in that backward mode of lying in a bed even after the mattress was saggy and lumpy, ridden with numerous holes and no longer comfortable for a good rest and, or, relaxation? Have you held back from articulating your concerns or failed to clarify when issues were out on the table. How have you retarded your own progress? It is certain that even if a thousand views are not for you and you yourself had that strong resolve to advance, progress would be possible. However, even if a thousand cheers are going up for you and you yourself simply do not believe in your own ability and so do nothing, progress will never occur. It is therefore necessary to look inward at the self. Leakages of self-sabotage, self-doubt and self-pity are only going to fester and form foul-smelling matter of retardation. Crass, uncouth and discourteous communication and, or, attitudes may only serve to draw away from you, persons willing to help you move forward. Self-examination is key to then “Clean House” all in a bid to cleanse That Womb, That Putrid Place.

By all means, in this current season Mental Wellness, Balance, Calm and Tranquillity will best be served if that Womb is an Accommodating Place. What is the State of That Womb? Go do your Homework!